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Tough Mother

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Visited my friend “Trevor” in Kalispell today. Trevor suffered two strokes just before this past Christmas and he is working on his physical therapy and recovery. He’s 35 years old.
When I first met up with Trevor, he was standing on his porch and I couldn’t tell if anything was different. After he started walking down the stairs, the mobility struggles became apparent with his left foot dragging and the stilted cadence of his gait. We went for a hike and he answered a lot of the questions I had on the way. I learned that he had two rare forms of stroke simultaneously that should have left him unable to speak or walk—making the progress he’d already made that much more remarkable. He still struggles with recall (though I didn’t personally witness any gaps) and his kinesthetic awareness for his left limbs. His vision is also impaired, but he has already seen improvement there, prior to any lens correction.
He was angry and frustrated with what he viewed as slow progress, but he also demonstrated his personal fortitude by predicting a full recovery. I mentioned that patience has never been his strong suit (a sentiment to which he claimed resentment, but also grudgingly admitted as accurate).
I felt much better about his condition and prospects after that one visit—he’s strong and determined and he has great support from his family and their local community. I’m looking forward to my next visit and witnessing the new progress he’ll undoubtedly make.

Through an Open Door




While visiting my brother, I received a text message from Emma informing me that she was moving to Wyoming and that it would be cool if we could meet up sometime. I was pretty stoked to hear from her, since I’d always felt like we had missed out on the chance to get to know each other due to poor timing, but I’m also trying to keep realistic expectations. I don’t know what I’ll be doing in the future and it sounds like her plans are equally uncertain, but it still seems like we should meet up to see if there’s any potential. She’s going to be pretty busy working on a horse ranch, but I’m sure we can find time to meet up.